Add new comment

I only engage in conflicts or debates when it brings me pleasure...for example if I am going to learn something, or if I feel the topic is inherently interesting to me, or if I enjoy the company of my interlocutor. If not, I prefer to read, or nap, or seek someone who attracts me...

Most of the time, conflicts are simply draining...and I'm not so attached to my position in the debate that I would waste my time defending it...

Thanks for asking.