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Challenges will come no matter what. Thinking one needs to artificially bring tension to a relationship for the sake of a challenge strikes me as arrogant, as if the person doing this knows what the other people need. It seems like a recipe for a disaster of unintended consequences.
Not that I'm against tension, one needs a bit of it in order to not be completely ineffectual. I just believe the tension, the challenges, will arise in due course, no need to push the river, as it were.