Submitted by anon (not verified) on Mon, 03/15/2021 - 11:47
Challenges will come no matter what. Thinking one needs to artificially bring tension to a relationship for the sake of a challenge strikes me as arrogant, as if the person doing this knows what the other people need. It seems like a recipe for a disaster of unintended consequences.
Not that I'm against tension, one needs a bit of it in order to not be completely ineffectual. I just believe the tension, the challenges, will arise in due course, no need to push the river, as it were.
Challenges will come no matter what. Thinking one needs to artificially bring tension to a relationship for the sake of a challenge strikes me as arrogant, as if the person doing this knows what the other people need. It seems like a recipe for a disaster of unintended consequences.
Not that I'm against tension, one needs a bit of it in order to not be completely ineffectual. I just believe the tension, the challenges, will arise in due course, no need to push the river, as it were.